A Conscious Uncoupling is a breakup or divorce that is characterized by a tremendous amount of goodwill, generosity, and respect, where those separating strive to do minimal damage to themselves, to each other, and to their children (if they have any), as well as intentionally seek to create new agreements and structures designed to set everyone up to win, flourish, and thrive, moving forward in life.
Breakups Don't Have To Be Destructive, And They Don't Have To Leave You Broken
Conscious Uncoupling is a powerful Five steps program that helps you feel better equipped to have a breakup that is one filled with mutual respect, kindness, and deep caring.
Give Yourself the Gift of Emotional Freedom
The Conscious Uncoupling program helps you develop the skills to find and hold difficult emotions so you can have the sense of safety you need for your breakup. In addition, setting a powerful intention for the outcome will help you navigate the breakup in wholesome ways.
Feel the feelings. Drop the story.
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PEMA CHODRON
Reclaim Your Power & Your Life
The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any.
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ALICE WALTER
Another focus of the Conscious Uncoupling program is to help you shift your awareness of your breakup story to a more complex and well-rounded perspective. This will help you identify new capacities and skills to cultivate so you can have the power to reclaim your life.
Break The Pattern. Heal Your Heart
We can find the solution to problems only if we deeply understand what causes them. The Conscious Uncoupling program helps you understand the deeper truths of your breakup story. This understanding holds the key to your healing.
We are disturbed not by what happened to us, but by our thoughts about what happened.
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EPICTETUS
Become a Love Alchemist
You can live your life out of circumstances or you can live your life out of a vision.
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WERNER ERHARD
With everything you have learned in the Conscious Uncoupling program so far, you can now step up to create your vision of the new relationship with your former partner, and identify steps to realize your vision.
​Create Your Happy Even After Life
Every end is a new beginning. As you transition from the end of your old relationship to the beginning of your Happily-Even-After Life, the Conscious Uncoupling Ritual will help you solidify the release (or uncoupling) of your old relationship, and the alignment of your new life path with your community.
Hi, I am Braden Ong. I'm a certified relationship coach specializing in guiding career driven individuals through the complexities of divorce with compassion, clarity, and a focus on Conscious Uncoupling.
Having personally navigated a 30-year marriage and a conscious uncoupling divorce, I understand the unique challenges of divorce, particularly successful professionals concerned about the emotional, financial, and career implications.
Designing new beginnings for successful professionals facing life transitions.
My coaching practice and my book, "Designing Your New Beginnings: A Practical Guide to Amicable Divorce, Financial Wellness, and a Brighter Future Together," empower individuals to approach divorce not as an ending, but as a transformative opportunity for growth and new beginnings. I help my clients embrace the core principles of Conscious Uncoupling, fostering greater self-awareness, compassion, and communication to create a more amicable and empowering separation process.
If you're a successful professional facing the prospect of divorce, you understand the stakes are high. The potential disruption to your career, the risk of an unfair financial settlement, and the emotional toll can feel overwhelming. If you're seeking a more conscious and empowered approach, especially if you feel your spouse may not be as aligned, I'm here to guide you. I understand the unique pressures you face and will help you navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity, compassion, and a focus on creating a fair and generous outcome for both partners.
With a blend of logical acumen, a growth-oriented mindset, and a deep understanding of the career driven individuals, I guide my clients towards achieving emotional well-being, financial stability, and fulfilling relationships as they embark on this new chapter.